Could we fall for each other...in time? Or should it happen within the first few dates?

taking it slow??? --- you dont dictate how fast or slow a relationship goes ---- it just happens ---- and after 4 dates i would know if i wanted to be with them or not ---- there is no spark no pion (my favourite word at the moment) --- you should be both reasonably experienced in love and life and you make such a big deal --- "i kissed him Saturday" ---- after 4 dates??? --- plus he is not tall and you have to force yourself past that??? no there is nothing there ---- if there was you would not have even noticed he was the same height --- and really ??? you should be lovers by now ---- if there was a spark ---- im very harsh very cynical but im also an incurable romantic ---- how does he treat you??? --- opens doors pays for everything flowers romantic settings ???? mmmmm think about all of that --- best wishes